Welcome back to Christy’s Corner. Today I want to talk about something that I am not sure I completely understand. Men. Yup, that’s it. Men. Men can be wonderful, men can be infuriating but what really makes a woman love a man? Now, I know that I can only speak for myself, but as a girl, I do have friends and I do hear what they say as they gossip, I mean talk, about their honeys.
When you ask a man what they like most about women some may say “I’m a butt guy” or “I’m a boob guy” but I don’t think that’s true in the case of women. Yes, women might think a man has a nice smile or a cute butt, but I don’t think a woman falls in love with a man for these attributes. I think a woman notices these cute little body parts much later, after she knows he’s the one. A woman, in my opinion, falls in love with a man for his thoughtfulness.
A woman can see a man standing next to her, love his smile and know if he is somebody she would like to be with forever. A man who will only smile and make no attempt to get to know you is …. just not the one.
Now, if this same man smiles at a woman then goes on to offer her a seat and seems genuinely interested in what she has to say, this may be the start of something good. Or, another scenario is if a woman is in distress, such as carrying a heavy box and can’t open the door, and the man runs over to help her and smiles and wants to chat, that is a good thing. These two scenes display a man who doesn’t only think of himself and shows that he has a caring and thoughtful side.
I personally, have finally found such a man. I didn’t know that a man could be sweet, caring and thoughtful until just recently. When I came across my man I was the happiest I have ever been. I have found a man who will love me unconditionally. A man who will help at home, listen to me when I need to talk and if I ask for his opinion, he will even offer suggestions or helpful wisdom. Don’t get me wrong, I know there is no perfect man, but I am pretty convinced that I have found the only one out there that displays all of these traits. Now, don’t be jealous. (big smile) Ladies, you too can find a man who is caring and thoughtful but it may take a little time. It took me about 25 years to realize that I had found this man when I was a teenage girl and once I did I realized that he grew up to be an even better man. I know, too sickening sweet, but it’s a rare thing for an old lady like me to finally find love and happiness. I just want to share it with the world.
Ladies, to you I wish happy hunting. If you are out there and still looking for Mr. Wonderful just be sure you don’t get distracted by the butt or smile. Pay attention to personality and kindness that a man shows toward you and if this works out for you, he may just be a keeper. Ok, a cute butt is a nice touch too!